I keep meaning to develop articles here, but two disparate careers and a theatre
hobby addiction somehow keep me away from doing more writing. But this article happened across my inbox today, and is worth sharing. I and other therapists often have clients who were (are) dealing with aging parents, which can often reactivate a lot of unfinished business left over from childhood. Especially in the case of neglectful or abusive caregivers, having to revisit these familial connections — often not at our own instigation — can even border on traumatic.
This is a really good article from a therapeutic perspective on what happens when abusive or neglectful parents come back later in life to their adult children, seeking reconnection and/or support; what do the now-adult children *really* owe those dysfunctional caregivers?